Here is a note about how to connect to get a secure connection to remote MySQL server with SSH (by David Carlson).
local port:@: 3306,
host:@: localhost, remote port: 3306
That's it. It works very well with a direct Internet connection. I'm having problems with SSH conflicting with my Win95 network and Wingate - but that'll be the topic of a posting on another software company's usegroup!